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|  | Friends, Boys, and unrequited love « Thread Started on Dec 5, 2007, 3:13am » | |
 ok... so yeah i'm in 6th grade... really young... and i've liked this boy ever since the start of 5th grade. he's called seewon... and i really really like him. he came last year... and now he's really popular. back then he was in my class and not so popular.. so it was easier to get close to him. anyway... just seeing him and him play and smile made my day/... being in the same class with him was so good... made a smile come to my face.... and when i saw him do things like scrunching up his face... doing uncool things... it made me laugh inside and tuck it inside my mind... like a little secret... he's really popular now.. and a lot of pretty and popular girls like him. my friend, amy dated with him... and she came to me with love help. she's just so nice and sweet.... so i hid my feelings and cheered her,.,, he broke up with her a few days ago... and... i like him even more. am i betraying her?? should i confess??
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|  | Re: Friends, Boys, and unrequited love « Reply #1 on Dec 5, 2007, 9:52am » | |
hm.. I don't think you're betraying her.. Maybe a little bit. Since.. You like him too! You can't do anything about it so it's just bad luck that your friend like him too. You cheered her.. Oh. Well, I think I would do that too. But that makes it more complicated xDD
So he broke up with her? You know why? How long did they date? Probably your friend had a cry on your shoulder? Well, I would wait with confessing to him. Because when they just broke up they might aren't really happy now xDD And it would be really worng to date a guy that your best friend just dated days ago. It would really hurt her.
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|  | Re: Friends, Boys, and unrequited love « Reply #2 on Dec 5, 2007, 9:51pm » | |
ughh i know how you feel. i've like this guy forever and he's become a good friend but he's now dating another friend. shucks. i don't think you're really betraying your friend simply because you can't help it. your feelings are sometimes not controllable. i suggest you should confess but just not yet. wait it out. i do hope you feel better though and always wish for the best.
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|  | Re: Friends, Boys, and unrequited love « Reply #3 on Dec 7, 2007, 1:15pm » | |
Yeah I agree with Carrie would be wrong to date a boy whos your best friends ex but some really really good friends understand and dont mind it...so i think you know what type of person your friend is she understanding or only one sided thinker well either way wish you luck.So if you want to confess to him atlest wait a month...so your friend can get over him like try to not let her see him or dont mention his name.Oh and i dont really think you are betraying her i mean everybody has the right to like someone! and Whish you lot and lots of luck <3
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|  | Re: Friends, Boys, and unrequited love « Reply #4 on Dec 8, 2007, 5:04am » | |
if i was you wait until your friend gets over him then wait a week or two as long as she acts normal and feels okay tell her about your crushif its okay with her then maybe you'll have a chance with him
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|  | Re: Friends, Boys, and unrequited love « Reply #5 on Dec 8, 2007, 5:09am » | |
even though you guys are lucky i would never have the guts to even talk to a guy im too shy anyway theres this guy i've been crushing on since 6th grade it stopped at 8th grade but even now im in the 9th grade i can't talk to him normally i can even say hi what should i do
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|  | Re: Friends, Boys, and unrequited love « Reply #6 on Dec 16, 2007, 12:02pm » | |
sure you have no feelings for him anymore? are you able to tak to other guy ?or really never? maybe its just because you don know how to start...you shold just try to drop in a talk with some of your friends + a guy ..shy doesnt mean you cant talk to someone it means you cant be that open ...so try to get in a talk and try to speak...you dont have to be a chatterbox
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